Feminine and masculine energy are opposites: you can’t have one without the other. Today, we’ll look at how to be feminine and soft as reclaiming your inner femininity may help you feel more confident.
Not only that, but it makes you feel more alive and helps you to become more of who you are deep down within. Embodied feminine energy is formed from the inside out, and for a woman to be more feminine, she must prioritize what is going on inwardly.
How to be more feminine and soft?
You may be motivated to embrace your femininity for a variety of reasons. Perhaps you work in a competitive workplace and spend too much time thinking in an aggressive manner. Perhaps you’ve observed that your busy lifestyle has allowed you to adopt a more manly appearance.
This revelation may make you wish to cultivate a more feminine appearance. It’s healthy to care for your looks, so let’s look at ways how to be feminine and soft.
- Self-care is the key
- Be madly in love with yourself
- Dress pretty
- Slow down a bit
- Laugh, Play, and Be Unpredictable
- Be kind and soft
- Understand How to Let Go
Self-care is the key
Good self-care activities are the fertilisers that keep this inner brilliance alive. And it’s at the heart of what it means to be feminine.
It’s a way for you to offer yourself what you so freely give to others: sustenance. This is a technique for channelling your feminine energy and intrinsic capacity to nurture and nourish within rather than constantly outward to others.
Sounds obvious until you realize how many roles a modern woman must do at work and at home. That is why, no matter what is going on in your life at the moment, the first rule of being a woman in touch with her femininity is to take care of herself.
Believe me, if you take care of yourself daily, you will have more energy and everything else will fall into place.
Be madly in love with yourself
No matter what stage of life you’re in, appreciate your one-of-a-kind beauty and love yourself endlessly. Allowing your inner light and beauty to come through is a skill that can be learned. You may accomplish this by increasing your emotional nurturing behaviors. They are a powerful yet easy technique to boost your inner glow when your outside brilliance fades.
As you age, which is unavoidable, all you have to offer in terms of beauty is your inner glow. It must be nurtured! That’s how you show off your actual feminine side. Never let your inner sparkle dull.
We underestimate the effect that our clothing choices have on how we feel and behave like women and feel more feminine and soft. You may be hesitant at first, but as you get used to it, you will typically choose to wear a dress than jeans.
Slow down a bit
Receptive energy is feminine energy. You feel calm when you are in your feminine energy. That being said, you may be unaware of all the ways you keep yourself busy, busy, busy and busy.
In our more male culture, many of these habits are taught, indoctrinated, and established. They do not, however, produce the sensation of inner calm that we all want. Instead, they produce the inverse. Not satisfied and yearning for more
Slowing down, tuning in, and cultivating inner calm are all ways to be feminine. This is heavenly feminine power at its purest.
Laugh, Play, and Be Unpredictable
Growing up implies that we must become more serious about our lives. Yes, you must be a responsible adult, but don’t lose your sense of humour.
When you’ve lost touch with your playful side, life is no longer enjoyable. Playfulness is a more responsive, gentler energy. You are light-hearted when you are playful.
Be kind and soft
Your gentleness, like it or not, is one of your most powerful strengths as a woman. Be kind to others and offer to help them from the bottom of your heart and feel peaceful, comfortable, and in touch with your femininity while you are serving others.
Understand How to Let Go
Learn to let go if you want to be genuine to your feminine side. What exactly do I mean by this? Stop attempting to exert control over others, situations, or the consequence of your actions.
You are a goddess whose mission is to cultivate, adore, love, and trust your inner femininity. Accept the situation as it is and enjoy the journey. You are the primary source of your strength and creativity. Allow that to inspire others. Others will treat you like the actual goddess that you are if you are vulnerable and share your most personal side.
It Isn’t About Rules When It Comes to Feminine Energy
So, do you have any guidelines about what it means to be feminine? Do you believe that by becoming more feminine in your expressions, you will always be more feminine? Is there a requirement that highly feminine ladies must constantly appear and act elegantly? Do you believe that feminine ladies can never be masculine or have a rule that states you can never, ever cuss or use obscenities to be feminine? Do you believe that being feminine entails being passive? Consider this for a moment.
Being More Feminine Doesn’t Mean Being More Passive
Because of an increasing number of dating and relationship guidelines spreading on the internet, many women today have incorrect views about how to appear more feminine. Because of the new age guidelines, many women nowadays believe that being feminine means being submissive, more receptive, or receiving.
Being sensitive is a useful ability to have in general, but it has nothing to do with growing more feminine. Rather than being just about feminine energy, receptivity will help you open up and relate more as a human. Many individuals believe that being feminine in dating entails “leaning back.” The fact is that a macho guy may lean back and not become or appear ‘feminine.’ People are getting tangled up in the whole feminine and masculine paradigm. There truly isn’t any reason!
Being Soft and Feminine Doesn’t Mean You Give Up Being Masculine
We all contain both masculine and feminine energy (men and women). Remember that feminine and masculine energies are not mutually exclusive. Your manly characteristics are just as valuable and useful in your life (and, yes, even in your partnership!). It’s just that many of us women have grown incredibly masculine as a result of our jobs and lifestyle. As a result, many women no longer want (or know-how) to break free from their hyper-masculinized existence.
To be a valuable woman, you must also be able to access your healthy masculinity.
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Sarah Khan is pursuing CSE and is an author at Evolve.
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